Effectiveness is barging in
intimidating
demanding
not-taking-'no'
not caring about feelings...
tough as nails
dickish behavior
not sitting back
no more wishing
and pouting
and whining
nor waiting to have it handed to you.
Get active and bold
and forceful
and argue if need be
and TAKE A STAND.
No giving up,
no running away
no caving when people get pushy
or want to have a pissing contest.
There is no morality; just win or lose.
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