Throw Aside the Blinders of Youth

When you choose between being a Top or a Bottom
in Life, choose carefully.

There are no rules or demands about being nice in
this life. We're trained like dogs to believe that thriving
is dependent upon 'goodness,' but that's a myth.

Outside of children's fairy tales, the act of being kind,
demure, nice, and friendly bear no positive impact on
most things in this world. In fact, these actions single you
out as a potential target.

Nice doesn't cut it. There's no profit in it.

Don't be intimidated by a change; 'mean' people know
not to waste their time with bullshit. They're keeping
themselves protected from useless chit chat, triviality,
kittens, neighbors, world peace; they're practical,
invested in self and gain, not impressing or pleasing
anyone else. 

They make the first strike, defensive. Tactical.
Decisive. We've been taught that 'mean' equals 'bad'
because 'mean' people (realistic folks, practical folks)
survive, and the ruling class wants no competition.

Keep protected against the slings and arrows and
bullshit of all others at all times. Survival isn't pretty,
and manners won't be required for these End Times.

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Break Those Chains

Don't try to impress anyone;
care nothing for what they think, say,  or do.

Be nonplussed at all times; Have no expectation of anyone or anything.

Be Zen; practice Detachment.

Develop perspective; unaffected by all, knowing that nothing man does
bears significance for you.

Embracing the impermanence of everything...opinion, slander, debate,
jealousy, conflict, etc.

In your own world, self-contained...no concerns.

Focused on your own stuff, your own needs, your own agenda, your
own tasks, your own survival.

Dress how you want, do what you want, go where you want, say what you
want...the ability to be powerful is taken, not permitted. Take on the
repercussions for a live of freedom head-on.

Think for yourself, sing and dance when you want, cease catering to others.

Be 'inappropriate', be intolerant, be dismissive, be offensive...it's good for
people to see different things, to not always have things their way, to be
exposed and to question.

Set your own standards and rules. Accept being Unique unto self.

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It's There; Find It

Always hold yourself in the highest esteem.

Afford no restriction in loving yourself,
your plans, your past, your ideas...everything
about you. Crush self-doubt and guilt. Reject
shame and demurity.

Become as bright and as bold as the stars
you see other great people as. There is
nothing in them that isn't equally in you;
it's all attitude, drive, belief, and training.

No one lese is equipped or competent to
judge you on anything; no one can know you
or understand your purpose, so why listen
to their criticisms?

Build yourself up; confidence is
inordinately important to success. It may not
stay at the same level of energy, but as long as it
is habitually returned to as a mindset after every
set-back, you will not fail. (Even if an endeavor
'fails,' the success is in still going onward.)

Keep a wall up blocking out all the distractions
and detractors. Maintain your vision.
There is no other voice to be heard but yours,
lovingly pushing onward, bestowing praise
and acceptance.

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Every Man Is An Island

There's a reason the world tries to teach
that 'aloneness' is a devil's ploy; an unwinnable,
severe, desperate situation to be avoided and
condemned at all costs.

Society hates individualism, and wishes to stomp it
out at every turn. The individual being strong
and singular diminishes society's hold over us.
And that's bad --in theory--for the whole, but
certainly not the parts.

There is great strength in separating from the unwashed
masses of hypnotized sheep.
Be an island;
self-loving,
self-sustained,
content,
self-entertaining,
independent,
detached from sway,
self-accepting,
self-governing.

It's an arduous and intricate process, but all
things worth the effort are.

In business, you wouldn't take on a
losing proposition with a bad track record
and a guarranteed loss on your investment,
so why would you do it in personal relations?

People are unreliable, inefficient, hateful, dangerous,
judgmental, damaged, lying, unloyal pieces of
garbage. We know that going in if we've paid attention to
anything... Moved past the pleasantries and facade...
Lived long enough and been lucky enough to
survive the armageddon of the human race.

Make smart choices in your life as you would with your
money; invest wisely, avoid problems, cut your losses.
Keep it skeptical and cynical.

"Never use your heart--use your head."

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When in Rome....

If you're in the battle,
you damned well better learn to fight!

The decision to be passive or weak (while
everyone else in the world is engaged in
war) is a sure way to be subjugated or destroyed.

Other people being coarse, criminal, rude,
angry, abusive, etc. isn't the problem; savagery is
a given so long as you're topside on this mudball.

It is the way it is, and hating it won't change it,
so you better learn to change yourself in preparation.

No, your not fighting back is the problem.

Each of us has a right--a responsibility--
to fight for our life, for what is ours, for our
loved ones. That's an  irrefutable human truth.

Survival is our right; there is no higher authority
than embracing animal instinct and claiming what
is rightfully yours. Being understood by society
is not remotely on a list of concerns.

Fight for your life, tooth and nail, to the bitter end.
Because 'they' are always and forever gunning for
you, whether you recognize it, respond to it,
agree with it...or not.

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Lose that Goddamned Fairy Tale Mentality

There is no such thing as a fair fight.


There are winners and losers, and no
real middle ground. And the world cares
nothing for losers.


The orchestrators of the concepts of
(ever-unattainable) Justice and Fairness--
the ideas of Possibility of retrieving a
sensible and balanced outcome from
defeats--they're the people who didn't
fight fair, now in a position to lie about 'how'
things work.


Because frustration and conflict and
constant disappointment knee-cap an
opponent better than any up-front assault
ever could!


Pretending that the world works based on
civility and good-heartedness and positive
thinking and philanthropy (when deviousness
is behind every profit and score)...it's brilliant!


The winners pretend that it was goodness
and respect and hard labor that created their
successful outcome. But pretense doesn't
recreate reality.


Don't let gullibility decide your fate.
See past the charade.
Choose well which path you take, based on
which outcome you wish to achieve.


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The Heart-- Like a Pecker-- is a Bad Lead to Follow

Seek a better balance between heart and mind!

Know your heart, but don't be ruled by it.

It's important to be informed about--
cognizant of-- emotions within, but to
refrain from being controlled by them.
And sugar-coating what you feel, attempting
to accommodate your sense of what is
'moral' doesn't help the processing.

Trying to maintain an attitude that is in
direct opposition to how things really are
can lead to cognitive dissonance!
Emotionally-led thinking, decisions made
with emotions, being swayed by conscience and
compassion are all paths to disaster.

Keep your emotions private--let others guess
what only you know.  Giving too much away
makes you vulnerable to the attacks of enemies--
and everyone who exists is a former enemy,
present enemy, or future enemy.

So that makes that easy to determine!
Exercise restraint and control to keep the
savages at bay.

There is great power in being an enigma
and constantly keeping them guessing.

Being a nice guy just isn't profitable.
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